One very easy way to make other people happier is just to listen. Almost everyone is eager to talk and be heard. If you decide to pay attention warmly to another person and not interrupt, that person will feel happier instantly and will think that you are somebody quite remarkable! This will of course make most listeners feel good too.
It is odd that we all want this gift, to be listened to, but many people are so reluctant to give it. A really neat way through this dilemma is to take it in turns. The reevaluation counselling community have developed this idea a very long way with astonishing results. Have a look at www.rc.org
Just decide to listen attentively, without interruping, or saying what your thoughts are about an issue next time a friend or colleague raises something, and let me and this blog know what happens. I think we will all be surprised!
Best wishes
Nick
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
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